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if you know this rather be right here with you nothing else I'm at Albert Park right now having an afterno didn't walk before the sun goes down even though it's so cold outside but I still wanted to take a walk because I have been sitting in front of my desk while sometimes
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you nothing
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else I'm at Albert Park right now having
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an afterno didn't walk before the sun
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goes down even though it's so cold
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outside but I still wanted to take a
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walk because I have been sitting in
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front of my desk while sometimes
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standing the whole day and I feel like my blood is not even flowing so having a walk outside is also good for my physical and mental health even though it's so windy and cold
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my blood is not even flowing so having a
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walk outside is also good for my
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physical and mental health even though
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it's so windy and cold
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good morning everyone so while my coffee is brewing I thought we can chat together and I can also make my breakfast which is sandwich you know it's been a year since I moved in here so I thought I want to chat about this experience of living by myself so I will
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is brewing I thought we can chat
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together and I can also make my
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breakfast which is sandwich you know
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it's been a year since I moved in here
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so I thought I want to chat about this
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experience of living by myself so I will
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say that leing Al is very it has a lot of freedom because you can basically do whatever you want in your own space if you want to be clean or you want to be messy you can just do whatever nobody's going to judge you and nobody cares about you because this is your own space
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of freedom because you can basically do
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whatever you want in your own space if
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you want to be clean or you want to be
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messy you can just do whatever nobody's
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going to judge you and nobody cares
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about you because this is your own space
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Oh my coffee is coming
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topic of living alone I think I do enjoy this kind of freedom of doing whatever I want and also decorating the whole place and using this whole place just for me without really thinking about other people which is fantastic and then I also realize that there's a price that you need to pay for this kind of
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this kind of freedom of doing whatever I
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want and also decorating the whole place
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and using this whole place just for me
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without really thinking about other
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people which is fantastic and then I
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also realize that there's a price that
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you need to pay for this kind of
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Lifestyle because living alone is definitely a very privileged thing to do because you don't have any other people to share the bu with so that's definitely a price and you need to pay definitely a price and you need to pay for living this kind of lifestyle and enjoying this kind of Freedom another
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definitely a very privileged thing to do
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because you don't have any other people
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to share the bu with so that's
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definitely a price and you need to pay
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definitely a price and you need to pay for
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living this kind of lifestyle and
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enjoying this kind of Freedom another
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thing that I found is that I think living alone it's not the problem but then when you are also working from home and living alone that's the problem with this combination because you are basically spending 24 hours a day staying in the same place just with you without any other social interactions
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living alone it's not the problem but
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then when you are also working from home
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and living alone that's the problem with
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this combination because you are
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basically spending 24 hours a day
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staying in the same place just with you
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without any other social interactions
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with other people or having the kind of like connction ction with the society it's very problematic at least for me you know like this year I didn't have a lot of work to do in terms of like the side jobs my side Geeks like teaching or doing research assistance because I just
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like connction ction with the society
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it's very problematic at least for me
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you know like this year I didn't have a
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lot of work to do in terms of like the
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side jobs my side Geeks like teaching or
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doing research assistance because I just
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want to focus on writing which actually require a lot of a long time and solitude but then as time goes by like in the first half of this year I realize that I come just live in this kind of Lifestyle forever and it's also driving me crazy sometimes because I don't have
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require a lot of a long time and
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solitude but then as time goes by like
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in the first half of this year I realize
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that I come just live in this kind of
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Lifestyle forever and it's also driving
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me crazy sometimes because I don't have
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other people to talk to even though I'm talking to you through the camera right now but if you think about it it's just me talking to the
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talking to you through the camera right
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now but if you think about it it's just
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me talking to the
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mean that you have to be alone the whole time for me I think I need to have more social interactions and social activities to balance being alone versus being around people and then how to spend time with yourself is really something that I need to keep learning and practicing but in general I very enjoy the time living
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time for me I think I need to have more
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social interactions and social
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activities to balance being alone versus
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being around people and then how to
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spend time with yourself is really
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something that I need to keep learning
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and practicing but in general I very
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enjoy the time living
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enjoy the time living Music here all right I'm about to head to plaes right now to enjoy my weekly exercise and social exercise and social Music life hello how you going good hi you
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here all right I'm about to head to
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plaes right now to enjoy my weekly
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exercise and social
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exercise and social Music
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life hello how you going good hi you
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life hello how you going good hi you Music I am back with some tulip the flower shop the owner actually remembers me maybe because I went there for couple of times on my way back I was thinking about the importance of having certain kind of local networks you know
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I am back with some
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tulip the flower shop the owner actually
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remembers me maybe because I went there
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for couple of times on my way back I was
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thinking about the importance of having
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certain kind of local networks you know
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like the bondings within this local community couple months ago I watched documentary I forgot the name of that documentary I'll put the poster somewhere on the screen the documentary is actually talking about how common it is for people to feel lonely especially when they are living in this kind of mod society and mod cities the main
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community couple months ago I watched
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documentary I forgot the name of that
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documentary I'll put the poster
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somewhere on the screen the documentary
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is actually talking about how common it
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is for people to feel lonely especially
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when they are living in this kind of mod
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society and mod cities the main
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character he also felt lonely he actually offers some solutions for solving this issue of loneliness which is to to have some bondings with the loal community for example you can go to the same Cafe regularly so the Barista is going to know about you even though it seems like it's not really like a
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actually offers some solutions for
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solving this issue of loneliness which
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is to to have some bondings with the
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loal community for example you can go to
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the same Cafe regularly so the Barista
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is going to know about you even though
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it seems like it's not really like a
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really important kind of networks but then with this little kind of connections with the local community would make me feel better that I I belong here so after I watch that documentary I think I kind of know that it's because I moved to this very new place and then I know nobody in this
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then with this little kind of
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connections with the local community
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would make me feel better that I I
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belong here so after I watch that
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documentary I think I kind of know that
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it's because I moved to this very new
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place and then I know nobody in this
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area area and plus I'm also living by myself it means that it's very important I should start building my own network within this local community I guess maybe this is a thing we always have to deal with this issue with belongings and lunch and I also got my matcha about to
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myself it means that it's very important
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I should start building my own network
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within this local community I guess
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maybe this is a thing we always have to
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deal with this issue with belongings and
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lunch and I also got my matcha about to
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come back to work actually I didn't do any work this morning here is um little apartment update as you can see my bed is in the living room it looks really weird I know but then I just cannot stand my neighbor's noisy sound because my bedroom that side of the wall is
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any work this morning here is um little
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apartment update as you can see my bed
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is in the living room it looks really
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weird I know but then I just cannot
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stand my neighbor's noisy sound because
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my bedroom that side of the wall is
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terribly thin I feel like maybe the wall they are all equally thin but then that side of the neighbor they really like to make noise because the wall is too thin and then the problem cannot be solved that's why I moved to the living room to sleep I think at the beginning I find it
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they are all equally thin but then that
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side of the neighbor they really like to
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make noise because the wall is too thin
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and then the problem cannot be solved
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that's why I moved to the living room to
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sleep I think at the beginning I find it
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so weird to see my bed in this living area but then I kind of get used to it right now and I also decorate it with some lights on the side so at night it looks like
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area but then I kind of get used to it
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right now and I also decorate it with
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some lights on the side so at night it
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looks like
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used to be in my living room but now I move here that's why the bedroom just become a studio it's very spacious I don't have anything else in this room except for that big plant and some of the furniture that used to be my bath table but yeah here is my work area
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move here that's why the bedroom just
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become a studio it's very spacious I
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don't have anything else in this room
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except for that big plant and some of
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the furniture that used to be my bath
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table but yeah here is my work area
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anyway just some apartment updates cuz I have no plans to move whatsoever that's why I move my bed to the living room in order to solve the problem it's funny because I told my parents about this like how I constant my noisiness neighbors and then that's why I moved back to the living room and they find it
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have no plans to move whatsoever that's
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why I move my bed to the living room in
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order to solve the problem it's funny
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because I told my parents about this
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like how I constant my noisiness
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neighbors and then that's why I moved
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back to the living room and they find it
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so interesting and my dad even commented this as a weight of like something a kind of Chinese idiot that I never heard of so it means that when you have a problem you would try to figure out a way to solve this all right I'm going to come back to my
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this as a weight
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of like something a kind of Chinese
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idiot that I never heard of so it means
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that when you have a problem you would
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try to figure out a way to solve this
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all right I'm going to come back to my
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writing and drink my Mata so I will talk to you later to you later Music but over the weekend I went to my friend Amy's place she organized a workshop for making marks with a bunch of her artist
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to you later
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to you later Music
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but over the weekend I went to my friend
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Amy's place she organized a workshop for
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making marks with a bunch of her artist
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friends together I feel at ease when I'm alone but social interaction is still very important anyway learning how to spend time with yourself is an art that takes a lifetime to
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alone but social interaction is still
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very important anyway learning how to
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spend time with yourself is an art that
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takes a lifetime to
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you enjoy I will see you in the next one you enjoy I will see you in the next one bye
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you enjoy I will see you in the next one bye
